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  • Trying Hard Enough (Poem Written By: Me)

    January 13, 2025
    Poetry
    creative, good enough, poem
    Trying Hard Enough (Poem Written By: Me)

    Who are you to tell me I’m not trying hard enoughWhat is the true definition of that?Is it forcing myself to stay awake every night?Waking up early every morning?Even though I walk from one end to the otherI lend my heart anyway People throw around this sisterhood thing.What is it anyway?Someone who listens to you?Tell…

  • Own Your Title, Whatever You May Call Yourself

    Mellyssa A. Diggs / Owner of Ai-Konic Graphics

    April 8, 2024
    Opinions, Other
    artist, artwork, blackart, creative, designer, fineart, good enough, owning your title, women
    Own Your Title, Whatever You May Call Yourself

    It is so hard for people, especially women, to own their status as an artist. It’s really a confidence issue. It is said we strive to follow our passions. If we are at all concerned with making money or if we do make money from our work – especially through commercial work – it must…

  • If My Pain Could Speak

    Mellyssa A. Diggs / Owner of Ai-Konic Graphics

    March 25, 2024
    Poetry
    anxiety, anxiety disorder, Chronic Pain, good enough, Invisible Illness, mentalhealth, my pain, poem, Poetry, survival
    If My Pain Could Speak

    If my pain could speakIt would tell you what I seekIt will state my constant stressAnd how my anxiety is a messIt will say that I’m unable to show my painBut the multiple spasmsKnows no limitsIf the pain could speakNo one can understandLet alone believe meIt will state it doesn’t want to breathIt doesn’t want…

  • Those Gray Days

    Mellyssa A. Diggs / Owner of Ai-Konic Graphics

    October 24, 2022
    Mental Health
    anxiety, black women, chronic fatigue, depression, endthestigma, good enough, mentalhealth, mentalillness

    When it comes to mental health, there are a few extremes: feeling like the Queen that I am or feeling like I want to break down and forget everything. Most tend to reach out when I actively show that “something is wrong”. There are times I feel like giving up but feel dismissed and ignored…

  • Struggle With Believing In Myself

    Mellyssa A. Diggs / Owner of Ai-Konic Graphics

    August 30, 2022
    Mental Health
    good enough, mentalhealth, the heart
    Struggle With Believing In Myself

    No matter what I set to do, I tend to feel inadequate or “not good enough”. Some of it is stemmed from bullying and a little low self esteem. As human beings, we tend to look at ourselves wrong kind of lens. We create the perception of who we are. I have to remember that…

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